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We often celebrate the power and pleasures of the single life, but skim over one of its harshest realities: loneliness. By Briony Smith December 29, Once a week, I grab sushi takeout: green dragon roll, spicy salmon roll, miso soup.

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At a certain point in life, you seem to hit a period where all your friends are either engaged, married, or seriously single AF. When I get a plus-one on an invitation. I most certainly do. When a guy refuses to even buy me a drink on a first date. Single wives wants sex Port St Lucie this happens on a first date, I tend to run as fast as I can.

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Oh, singleness. Sorry for bagging on you all the time.

From the diary of a single girl: being single doesn’t have to suck

But seriously, sometimes being single can feel that way. But then, as I think about it, there are those days when my singleness is actually great. Those are the days when I realize just how thankful I am that the Lord has me in this season. As a twenty-something, navigating hopefully somewhat effectively post-college life has been…tricky, Valdese NC wife swapping say the least.

With it just being me to worry about, I can spend time with my friends and do so without feeling guilty for not spending or Sex chat Cape Tribulation my time with a ificant other.

Case and point: in only a few, short weeks I make my first big girl move over to the East Coast. Deciding to attend graduate school out of state was honestly a far away dream of mine for the past two years.

Well, not quite—but you get the point. Close quarters, indeed.

As a single person, at least in this stage of my life, I relish having my own personal space. A room of my own. A space I can come back to without having to answer to anyone, especially on those funky, moody days. And as an extro-introvert, I often find myself needing space to sort out the events and emotions of the day. With the space to myself, I can even Beautiful seeking sex Chesapeake on my laptop for hours watching Disneyland ride walk-throughs, reading Archie comics or squeal weirdly over cute animal videos without shame.

In marriage, there are many joys and beautiful moments that a couple has the opportunity to experience. A married friend once spoke to me, affirming this to be true.

She explained to me that her relationship with the Lord changed when she got married. And it continues to change as she experiences a new journey as a mother.

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As a mommy and wife, it was already hard—nay, impossible enough for her to get some quiet time to herself. Let alone having the time enough to sit down with a cup of tea and dig into the Word. And I have to constantly remind myself of this opportunity that I have right now as a single person. The truth is, I have all the time in the world to dedicate to Sexy women want sex tonight Fort Lauderdale Lord. Paul makes his case for this as well in 1 Corinthians chapter 7.

But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband.

I am saying this for your own good, not Wife seeking casual sex NE Hastings 68901 restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.

Singleness is a gift to be cherished and not wasted. Use your time wisely to glorify the Lord with your life as is. What about you? Share with me in the comments below! I have been single for most of my adult life and truly believe the sterotypes of singledom need to be turned on their he. Love this!

Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts and recommendation, Cora! So spot on!! I work with Christian single women for a living and they always focus on the. I know I did when I was single Ladies seeking sex Chelsea Alabama 35043 because of it, I was able to prepare my heart and develop the maturity I needed to become a wife, mother, Blogger, everything else!!

Thank you so much, Selina — I am so encouraged to hear that! Thankfully God is good and patient with me.

I appreciate you reading and look forward to checking out your blog! I want to seriously commend you Leighann for recognizing the advantages of being single. I can remember a time when that was a reality for me yet Chorley dude looking to lick black pussy 38 years now I felt as though I took it for granted.

Whatever you do moving forward, cherish what you have now.

Awesome job…keep up the good work. Thanks Adult searching sex tonight Louisville Kentucky much, Ken! I really appreciate your insights and encouragement. Thank you so much for reading! Oh my gosh! When I lived in South Carolina it was pretty sucky to be single, especially when almost all of my friends were in a relationship, engaged or married.

Thanks so much for sharing, Mariah!

Yes, it can be hard being single in certain seasons over others. Great post Leighann. As always I love your thought process when you Casual sex new Lausanne and how well you explain and pass your message across. I find singleness to be a blessing and a curse. I am trying to remind myself of that too. Though I am not currently single, when I was single I enjoyed it.

You can do anything you want, anytime you want! There is no one to hold you back. This opens a whole world of possibilities and adventure. Specially, I loved travelling alone.

Love this post! You can do what you want, when you want and have nobody else to hold you back or think about. Great post x. Thanks so much, Tiffany!

It certainly does—there are definitely freedoms that come with singleness. I appreciate you reading!

Most girls tend to change their lifestyle according to the likes of their Women seeking real sex Rising Fawn Georgia, which I completely dislike. I do love the independence that comes with singleness. Thanks for reading, Sayanti! I have now met my partner and love him so much, so the single life seems distant to me. However, I do remember when I was single, because I was single for most of my adult life and I can definitely resonate with what you said.

I enjoyed my singleness and agree it was a time for me to get closer to friends, and enjoy the quietness of life. I also loved that I had my own space — ah the good old days! Thanks for sharing! Yes, totally agree with you on the whole taking time to spend with friends and family moreso in singleness! Thanks so much for reading, Victoria!

And as much as I love my boyfriend, I do miss the times when I was single! Since being in a relationship, I have to Rockford Alabama horny women Dan when I think about relocating or remember the little unofficial rules of living together, sharing common spaces, etc. Thanks for reading, Claire! Thanks for sharing your perspective, Laura! Notify me of follow-up comments by. Notify me of new posts by. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam.

Learn how your comment data is processed. I have the time to hang out with all of my friends—and get to know new ones. I don't have to worry about being held able for the potential needs of a ificant other.